While in Malaybalay, God blessed us so much. First, we got some much needed relief from the heat of Camiguin. The cool air of Bukidnon felt so wonderful. We even got "cold" at night and had to get a blanket and turn off the fan in our room. (To think that I thought it was so "hot" there last year!) Secondly, we got to spend some quality time with another American family, the Romeros. Our single missionary partners are great and so is the Filipino family, the Mardoquios, that are now serving with us on Camiguin. But there's nothing like talking with another American missionary mom who just "gets it."
|Ricky and Irene Redondo|
Irene had been our house helper from day one in Malaybalay. We hired her to help us with the hand washing of the laundry, the lunch cooking, and food shopping which were all totally "foreign" to me when we first arrived in the Philippines. But Irene quickly became part of our family and a later HUGE part of our ministry. She helped us so much with our gate ministry, from translating for us to telling us what/how/where to get what the person needed. It didn't take long before she was handling the gate alone when we weren't home---praying over the people, handing out the rice, taking them where they needed to go, inviting them back for morning prayer or to the bible study, etc.
In June, the missionary men along with some of the men from Ricky and Irene's community of Isla Bonita including Ricky decided to do a Jericho march around the mountain community to put an end to the alcoholism. You can read about it here. After the Jericho Project, Ricky became a different husband, father, son, man, Christian. He began to attend the weekly bible study. He helped round up the men from the community for the men's group each week. He started to attend morning prayer at our house when he didn't have work. He even began helping us with lots of ministry including helping us with and accompanying us to the funeral of this baby when I didn't have the strength to do what needed to be done.
Soon after Ricky's conversion, the other missionary families left Malaybalay leaving our family as the sole missionaries at our post. Ricky and Irene stepped up without us even asking. They became our mission partners. Ricky took over all of the work projects and ever-growing list of needs that was becoming overwhelming for Travis to tend to alone. The needs were so great; there were houses to be built, roofs to be replaced, floors to be poured, bathrooms and kitchens, walls. Ricky was a self-taught carpenter and was able tell us the best way to meet each person's need. He quickly became Travis's righthand man.
|Ricky sharing his testimony about how|
reading scripture changed his life.
It was so awesome to see God answering Irene's prayers for her husband, but we knew that Satan would not give up so easily and that he was going to use everything in his power to tempt Ricky back into a life of sin. So we continued to pray for God to help him stay on the right path. It worried us so much when we left at the end of the year to return home to wait for the baby to be born. We hated to leave Ricky and Irene behind without support. We begged the Redondos and Mardoquios to stick together, to continue to pray together, to continue to hold each other accountable, and to continue the bible studies.
We tried to stay in touch with both families as much as possible after we left and later got updates from the Romero family when they returned to Malaybalay in January. The Mardioquios had stayed the course and just finished training to become full-time FMC missionaries at the first ever Asian Intake. The Redondos had had some struggles, but were still trying to keep their eyes and hearts fixed on Jesus. Satan had indeed tried leading Ricky astray a few times, but he always returned to the cross seeking Jesus's mercy and forgiveness.
When we returned to the Philippines in July, we were able to visit with them and hear about their struggles. It was hard for Ricky to find work to support his family and even harder to find a job where the men he works with don't tempt him to go out drinking after work. He had slipped up a couple of times, but he was back on track again. Irene was only working sporadically washing laundry and giving Visyan lessons the last several months, and they had been barely able to feed their family. But Irene told us that they would rather have no money then to have Ricky working at higher paying jobs where he is faced with so many temptations.
Irene had contacted me several times while we were stateside asking for help for others, but had rarely asked for anything for her own family. I always sent extra to "pay" her for taking care of others, taking them to the doctor, going buy and deliver what they needed. But it was not nearly enough to provide for their family's needs since I thought that they both had steady work. My heart ached for them. I was so upset with her for not telling me. Mad at myself for not being a better friend and checking up on them more thoroughly. Angry with God for not helping this family who were so dedicated to helping others.
But then Irene told me in the same breath all about the times that God provided for them when they had absolutely nothing left. The little miracles that He provided to help them keep the faith and keep relying totally on Him turned my anger into complete awe. He knows better than me. And more importantly the Redondos know better too! Irene then excitedly told me that when God did provide they always had someone more in need come to their house. And so they shared with their neighbors--- the little food they had, the little money they had, they shared. Not from their abundance, but from their need, their REAL NEED. I sat in awe as I listened to all that had been happening in their lives since December.
|Ricky and Irene at the|
Couples for Christ dinner.
We only got to spend a few shorts weeks in Malaybalay before moving to Camiguin. It was so awesome to be able to be back in missions with the Redondos as our partners again. It was almost as if we hadn't left. We just picked up where we left off: morning prayer, bible studies, feeding the hungry at the gate, tending to the sick, etc. I was so sad to have to leave them again. I wanted to take them with us to give them jobs again that would allow them to feed their kids three meal a day everyday and allow them to participate fully in ministries again. I wanted to take care of them, because unlike them, I didn't fully trust God to take care of them.
When we returned to Malaybalay for Zephaniah's baptism, we were able to visit with Irene and Ricky. Again, we were humbled by their faith. Still without steady work, they had taken in two of Ricky's cousins. Yes, barely able to feed their own two kids, they took in two grown boys to feed and care for. They had put the younger one in the alternative learning school, and Ricky had been teaching the older one carpentry skills by day and to read by night. But more importantly they had been sharing the gospel with them, teaching them how to pray, how to read the bible, and how to live as followers of Christ. I say this all the time, and I will keep saying it. The poor are the most generous and giving people you will ever meet.
We were so blessed to be able to once again jump right into ministry with the Redondos during our short stay. Irene assisted us with several of our old neighbors who needed to see a doctor and/or needed medicines. She once again jumped in to help translate and gather what each person needed. She also accompanied us on some home visits. It was just like old times! We laughed so much at how we had all changed in the last year. She thought it was so funny to hear that our kids ride all around Camiguin on motorcycles and on top of the vehicle, something the old me would never have allowed. I laughed when I heard my own words come out of her mouth and repeated to me.
We also checked on some finished work projects with Ricky and Irene. We had hired Ricky after our visit in July to work on some of the projects that we still had on our list from last year. The Romeros were overseeing the projects, but Ricky had taken charge of them just as he had done last year. He was in charge of making the material list, hiring the workers, and being the lead carpenter on the projects. He rotated the workers each day, so that different out-of-work men in their community could have a salary at least once or twice during the week. He led the men in prayer at the work site before they began each day just as he had witnessed the missionary men do. He was also able to make the work schedule around morning prayer and the jail ministry again.
We also visited the families that are still on our work project list from last year to find that not only is their home still in of repairs or additions but that many are much worse off than they were when we first put them on the list last year. Our plan, if it is God's will, is to raise enough money to finish all the projects on the list and hire Ricky to be the lead carpenter and project leader. This will not only provide for the needs of the people on our list, but also provide jobs for Ricky and some of the out-of-work men in Isla Bonita. And Ricky will be able to have a flexible schedule that allows him to participate in other ministries with the Romero family.
We ask you to pray with us for the Redondos who are expecting a new baby next spring. Pray for the health of Irene and baby. Pray for their other two children, King and Princess, and the two young men they have taken into their home. Pray that God will continue to provide for this beautiful family. Pray that He will continue to lead and guide them and draw them closer to Him. Pray for their call to missions. And please pray about sponsoring one of our work projects. (Use this link to donate.)
|Ricky, Irene, King, and Princess|
UPDATE: Before I was able to publish this blog, I received a phone call from the Romeros about Ricky and Irene's newest self-appointed ministry. The Romeros recently noticed that the lives of one couple that was in their mass wedding a few months ago had changed drastically. They have baptized their children. They have been attending the weekly bible study as a family and have been attending the separate men's and women's groups that alternate each week.
The Romeros told us that Ricky and Irene had been a huge part of this family's change. They have taken this couple under their wing and have been walking their faith journey with them closely giving them the support they need to continue on when things get tough. Ricky has even made this husband his "right hand man" on the recent work projects, so that he can keep him busy and help him fight the same temptations he had encountered when he first had his conversion. This made my heart sing for joy!
Mrs. Genie, FMC's founder, had told me to hire a helper when we got to our mission post. She told me that it would save my sanity because running a house and a mission in a foreign country was overwhelming. Boy, she was right! Secondly, she told me of the fruit that would come about as the "helper" watched how we prayed as a family in the morning, how we prayed before meals, how we handled stressful situations, how we disciplined our kids, how we treated each other, and more importantly how we treated the people who would come to our gate. I was scared to death at the thought of having someone "watch" my every move during the day. Scared of what they would witness in our crazy chaotic family life!
But again, she was so right! I didn't see it last year, but I can see it now in Irene and Ricky and also in Lilay and Jerome. They have indeed learned so much from watching and listening to the missionaries they worked for, and both families have become missionaries in their own way, in their own communities. And both families have grown closer to the Lord through our witness despite all our faults and failures and the messiness of our imperfect, crazy, chaotic life!
Thank you, Lord, for letting me see the fruits of this unplanned ministry!